Anonymous

2 years

Too afraid to do sexual relationship

I’ve been married for the past 2 years and never have sex since i was too scared. We have tried before (not even close) but i dont think i can endure the pain. Please advise since i am giving up on myself. Should uitake some pills to make me go all out (to make me forget about the pain)

Thank you for your questions. The following answers regarding your current queries are just general descriptions due to the limited information provided by you. Click on this link (DoctorOnCall) for a private consultation with our doctors.

For your information, nearly 40% of women may experience problem related to sexual health at some point in their life. Among common cause causes of the sexual problems encountered are:

  • Hormonal changes such as during pregnancy and menopause
  • Women undergoing some illness and medication or treatment such as cancer
  • Relationship problems with your partner
  • Past negative experiences
  • Depression, anxiety, or stress

These causes however, are unable to be concluded with the limited info given by you. Therefore, we strongly advised that you consult this matter to a doctor. Besides consult and medication, you are advised to exercise the following:

  • communicate with your partner
  • usage of lubricant to reduce the friction
  • read or gain more information about sex
  • reduce stress
  • consult a sexual health counselor

In order for us to provide you with an accurate choice of treatment and management, we need additional details to explore further into your current complaints. Therefore, we greatly suggest that you refer this to your nearest medical doctor. You may also click on this link (DoctorOnCall) to speak with our doctors online for free. We assure you that our conversations are kept in confidentiality unless additional consultation needed with other medical parties. Thank you.

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