Answered by: Dr Sashini Seeni
Dear Doctor, my wife and I have been married for 16 years, and I am now 46, she is 44.
We have 2 children. The problem is, from the very first time we had sex (after marriage of course), my wife cannot achieve orgasm.
We have tried so hard for her to get orgasm, even tried using the fingers, but failed.
My wife wants to try to get another baby, but I can no longer get excited because my wife cannot climax. I feel I am useless at sex.
Is there any doctor who specialises in this sort of thing, especially female doctor? I do not thinks my wife will agree to meet if its a male doctor. Thanks.
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Based on the above information, we understand your concern about the problem you’re having. For your information, although it is highly likely that what your wife experienced is orgasmic dysfunction ( either cannot reach orgasm , or has trouble reaching orgasm when she is sexually excited) , do note that it can be caused by many things, such as:
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