Ask Doctor: First time wan have sex with wife

Anonymous Patient 27 days

Hi doc im forst time wan have sex with wife and i know i have pre-ejaculation and i havent have any experiences in making sex with a how should i over come this situation?

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Dr Nur Syuhada binti Zulkifli Doctor 27 days
General Practitioner

Thank you for your questions. The following answers regarding your current queries are just general descriptions due to the limited information provided by you. Click on this link (DoctorOnCall) for a private consultation with our doctors.

First and foremost, we truly understand your concerns regarding your symptoms and other health problems you might be facing.
From your complaints, we believe that your condition may have multifactorial causes such as:
Most cases of premature ejaculation / miscarriage are unrelated to any illness and are instead caused by psychological factors, such as:

  • psychogenic - such as stress, anxiety, nervous, problematic relationships
  • psychiatry - anxiety disorders, depression
  • neurogenic - trauma, diabetes, alcohol
  • endocrine - thyroid problems
  • arteriogenic - related to blood vessels such as high blood pressure, smoking, diabetes, high cholesterol and more
  • surrounding organ problems like the prostate and spinal cord - very rare
  • side effects of drugs such as antihypertensive

You are advise to:

  • Calm down
  • Talk to your spouse
  • Psychotherapy

In order for us to provide you with an accurate choice of treatment and management, we need additional details to explore further into your current complaints. Therefore, we greatly suggest that you refer this to your nearest medical doctor. You may also click on this link (DoctorOnCall) to speak with our doctors online. We assure you that our conversations are kept in confidentiality unless additional consultation needed with other medical parties. Thank you.

Last Updated: Sun Oct 20 2019 21:54:56 GMT+0800 (+08)

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