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We have sex but I didnt let him to put his penis inside me. Can I be pregnant?

Answered by: Dr Nur Syuhada binti Zulkifli

Last Updated: February 26, 2021 5:44 AM

Anonymous 49 days

Hi. I am 25 years and not married. I have sex with my boyfriend on 15 Feb and I didnt let him to put his penis inside my vagina. The only thing that we did is a handjob to make him cum. I am really sure that we didnt intercourse because I didnt let him. I didnt take plan b or any pill because I thought it would be safe. I am supposed to have my period now and I am paranoid because its already 4 days late. What should I do?

Dr Nur Syuhada binti Zulkifli 49 days
General Practitioner

Hi thank you for reaching out to us.

We understand your concern regarding of having the risk of being pregnant. For your information, it is impossible to get pregnant unless sexual intercourse or penetration occur and the sperm is released inside the vagina. Regarding your concern, other than pregnancy, there are multiple cause why a woman experiencing a delay in her menstruation :

  • Polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS)
  • Stress or emotional distress
  • Obesity: Excessive body weight can affect a woman’s menstrual cycle
  • Hormonal imbalance
  • Usage of hormonal contraception (pill, implant, injection or IUCD)
  • Medication side effects

Get through that time of the month comfortably without leak.

This is only our general impression why you are experiencing delayed menstruation. For your information, a normal healthy woman’s menstrual cycle usually lasts between 21 to 34 days meanwhile the bleeding period is between 2 to 7 days. We advise you to seek a doctor’s opinion and get yourself examined to find out the cause why you are having such condition so that you can get treated accordingly.

Still worried about your menstrual cycle? Speak to a gynaecologist today to ease your mind.

If you have any further question, do not hesitate to contact us at (DoctorOnCall) to speak with our doctors via phone call. We will value your privacy. Thank you.

Last Updated: Fri Feb 26 2021 05:44:43 GMT+0000 (Coordinated Universal Time)
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