Anonymous

4 years

Sexual Performance Anxiety

I’m 28, male, 183, 85. After a recent infidelity issue with ex that led to break up, I haven’t been able to perform sexually in bed with others. Either I get too nervous and can’t get fully hard or I get hard but can’t last long when intercourse. Please help coz it’s emasculated and causing depression to deepen

Dr Ramzdhan,

4 years

Hi and thank you for your inquiry. This is a general answer to the question asked. Please click on this link (DoctorOnCall) to talk to us privately.

Based on the description you have just given, the sexual problems you encountered may be due to sexual disorder due to anxienty or an erectile dysfunction. To tackle the problems you faced, some general measures can be taken by you such as:

  • Talk to your partner before having the intercourse
  • Lead a healthy lifestyle - stop smoking, exercises more, eat healthily
  • Counselling - psycotherapy
  • Medication for erectile dysfunction

To help you solving the problem, more information regarding your health history are needed so that appropriate treatments can be delivered to you. You can talk to us privately over this issue on this link (DoctorOnCall). Thank you.

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